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Professional Women Heal, Transform And Thrive After Toxic Relationships."

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Just Imagine...

  • Waking up feeling completely free from your past and knowing that the best years of your life are ahead of you.

  • Naturally feeling calm, confident, connected and committed to creating your best life.

  • Having the freedom to redefine yourself as you see fit and create the best chapter of your life story yet.

  • Being free to enjoy total self-confidence, acceptance and self-esteem, better physical and emotional health, better relationships, more career satisfaction, greater resilience to stress, deeper connection with your soul, and a newfound sense of abundance, passion and purpose.

We work with professional women because they take their lives seriously, know there is better out there for them, and want the tools to make it happen.

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Meet Your Toxic Love Transformation Coaches:

Stephanie McPhail and David Charon

Stephanie and David are a husband and wife coaching team who bring their expertise, personal experience and balanced viewpoints together in a powerful synergy. Offering a unique male/female perspective that's both inspirational and practical, they help clients from all over the world transform their lives to include more peace of mind, personal freedom, love, joy, passion and purpose.

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What Do Our Clients Have To Say?

"I was at the point where I knew I needed more help. I was done and tired of toxicity. I was weary of the same drama and struggling to make sense of relationships!
I was reading personal development books, all types of relationship self-help books, trying mindfulness techniques to heal from past relationship trauma etc... You name it, I probably tried it as a way to overcome and find healing and understanding.
So desperate I was that I began looking on FB for some kind of toxic relationship/trauma support group. This is when I came across Stephanie & David's site, Being Loved Shouldn't Hurt.
It described me perfectly... A professional woman who has her s*hit together at work, but a complete mess in relationships.
As you can imagine, I had spent a good fortune on my attempts with other self development and healing programs, so when I saw the cost of this particular program, well... it was not as costly as others. So I jumped in and signed up. Something about this program seemed different to me and I was desperate and ready for something to work!!
Sure enough, everything about this program works and flows to recovery, understanding, and healing!
The weekly meetings, curriculum, and PSYCH-K sessions. It is a complete and thorough program for women or men that are done with toxic relationships and know that there must be a better way!
As a single mom, I know the major barrier to joining a program like this and that is FINANCES!! I get it, trust me. But here's the deal: life will not improve for us if we continue the same rut as usual. NOTHING WILL CHANGE, until we make a change and this change is to begin INVESTING in ourselves. We must invest in ourselves to become better women, which then makes us better mothers and providers for our children! Our kids deserve a better version of ourselves and they will not receive that if we refuse to invest in our personal growth, journey and healing!
Also, another barrier as a Christian woman is hearing others tell us "just pray, just pray for healing and wisdom. That is all you need is Jesus..!"
Trust me, I love my Jesus and I pray every single day, however, we NEED the help of others that are qualified and more prepared in certain areas to teach and instruct us on how to handle and deal with situations. We are human living this human experience, and it's necessary to lean on one another and learn from those that can help us grow!!
I am a much better me after taking this course. And I absolutely recommend it to anyone that is tired of toxicity and pain from relationships and ready to make a change!!" ~Alondra Magallanes Cooley
"I was at the point where I knew I needed more help. I was done and tired of toxicity. I was weary of the same drama and struggling to make sense of relationships!
I was reading personal development books, all types of relationship self-help books, trying mindfulness techniques to heal from past relationship trauma etc... You name it, I probably tried it as a way to overcome and find healing and understanding.
So desperate I was that I began looking on FB for some kind of toxic relationship/trauma support group. This is when I came across Stephanie & David's site, Being Loved Shouldn't Hurt.
It described me perfectly... A professional woman who has her s*hit together at work, but a complete mess in relationships.
As you can imagine, I had spent a good fortune on my attempts with other self development and healing programs, so when I saw the cost of this particular program, well... it was not as costly as others. So I jumped in and signed up. Something about this program seemed different to me and I was desperate and ready for something to work!!
Sure enough, everything about this program works and flows to recovery, understanding, and healing!
The weekly meetings, curriculum, and PSYCH-K sessions. It is a complete and thorough program for women or men that are done with toxic relationships and know that there must be a better way!
As a single mom, I know the major barrier to joining a program like this and that is FINANCES!! I get it, trust me. But here's the deal: life will not improve for us if we continue the same rut as usual. NOTHING WILL CHANGE, until we make a change and this change is to begin INVESTING in ourselves. We must invest in ourselves to become better women, which then makes us better mothers and providers for our children! Our kids deserve a better version of ourselves and they will not receive that if we refuse to invest in our personal growth, journey and healing!
Also, another barrier as a Christian woman is hearing others tell us "just pray, just pray for healing and wisdom. That is all you need is Jesus..!"
Trust me, I love my Jesus and I pray every single day, however, we NEED the help of others that are qualified and more prepared in certain areas to teach and instruct us on how to handle and deal with situations. We are human living this human experience, and it's necessary to lean on one another and learn from those that can help us grow!!
I am a much better me after taking this course. And I absolutely recommend it to anyone that is tired of toxicity and pain from relationships and ready to make a change!!" ~Alondra Magallanes Cooley

Name: Rachel Mineshima

Name: Claudine Bachelor

 
 

Name: Debb Lins

Name: Mariza Velez

"I wanted to give a shout out to Stephanie McPhail & David Charon and the amazing work they do in the inner circle. I signed up on Friday, August 6th and then left on a 3 day camping trip with my dog with tornado warnings and thunderstorms. I had limited internet, but enough to get the idea of what the Daily Accountability Check In was all about and how the group was structured. Since that phone call with Stephanie, I have: stopped thinking about and longing for the ex, I have met 5 new female friends and have gone kayaking, out for coffee, and am planning puppy socialization meetings in local parks. I have also reconnected with a male friend and am embarking on my first ever real friendship with a man!  I am sleeping at night, getting up and loving life, I have goals, direction, have let go of some faulty limiting beliefs instilled in my a life time ago. I continue to have work to do, but I am well on my way in less than 2 weeks! Don't even get me started on the PSYCH-K session with David--life changing! If you are stuck in repeat and attracting the same toxic unavailable partners...do your self a favor and invest in your own healing instead of giving your heart to 10 more losers who are not doing their work. You deserve better. You matter! Congratulations for getting this far. I encourage you to take it to the next level and get yourself straight before looking for love. I believe it will make all the difference."

"Hey peeps in case you didn’t know, Stephanie McPhail & David Charon are amazing mentors!

They provide you with the roadmap to develop the ability to gain self confidence so you can rebuild & recreate your framework so you can OWN your own life.

I’ve been codependent since 13.

It’s the FIRST time in my life I’m single and feel fully capable of coping with my own emotions and life issues on my own instead of running to a significant other or emotional attachment for comfort & security.

I was skeptical about connecting because the belief “can things really get better for me?” always swirled in my head.

Hands Down Best Decision I’ve Ever Made.

These are amazing coaches.

You wan’t be disappointed!

They changed my life forever.

Take your life back! Reclaim Your Power!"

Name: Antonia Martinez

Name: Jeanne Abshire

"When I started with Stephanie I describe myself as drowning just hanging above water. I was in this fog and didn't know if I was coming or going. I had to set boundaries for myself so I could function. Stephanie has guided to set little goals for myself everyday to make myself feel good. I can tell you I have gotten alot of self-esteem back and feel good. I have lost 55 lbs and starting to gain my confidence. Stephanie has pushed me to self love and go after what i want to  make myself happy. I currently enrolled to go back and finish getting my Administration License in July. I would recommend anyone who feels lost and broken to work with her and David. They pushed me to be accountable for me. Filling out the accountability sheets daily made me realize little details through my day what is actually going on within myself."

"When I first discovered Stephanie McPhail and David Charon/inner circle I was recently divorced and felt stuck in my life. I got a divorce after 36 years of being in an abusive relationship and I had no idea how to move forward at that point. When I was introduced to this program instantly I knew it was something I had to try. So I enlisted in the program. My biggest result I have taken away from this program was I am definitely unstuck in my thinking and actions of how I live my life now.   I am so much more positive in my thinking and I am healthier physically mentally and emotionally. I am most excited about healing relationships like with my son and finding new healthy relationships in the future. I love everything about this program but the one thing I love the most is the psych-k part really addressed my deepest core emotions and I was able to release them and continue my life with a new perspective for the future!  I highly recommend this program to everyone in this group."

Romina C.

“I am finally free of my negative thoughts and feelings about myself and the end of 7 yrs of a relationship. I feel like 190lbs have been lifted off my shoulders. Life feels good and I'm starting my new independence! I have a lot of work to do but I want to shout… I’m free at last...free from negative feelings, free from undermining my own forward progress, free to find a new love of my life. I love myself as I am and who I will become. I will be turning 50 in September and I am now excited.”

Adele D.

“I have a calm and peacefulness I never experienced before. I really saw a turnaround, I wasn’t raging anymore… I have such a better work/life balance. If you’re in a place in your life where you’re really not sure where to turn next, I have no doubt that Stephanie and David can help you get there.”

Tammy A.

“This program has done tremendous things for me, and David’s PSYCH-K was so helpful - I did wonders for my inner self and my beliefs and the way I looked at stuff… Stephanie and David’s program came into my life at the perfect time, and I can’t appreciate it more. I am so much happier, and I don’t know how to thank them enough.”

Lynn K.

“Joining the inner circle has been one of the most rewarding learning experiences I’ve ever had. [It] provides a very safe place to be extremely vulnerable. The PSYCH-K sessions did more for my healing than all my years of counseling put together… a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. If you are tired of being chained down by your thoughts and emotions, this is the program that will help you set yourself free.”

Elsa B.

“Thank God for this group, especially the Inner Circle which I call my Tribe… it was SO WORTH IT and possibly the BEST THING I’ve ever done to help my healing.”

Cindi R.

“I had an appt with my counselor today. She told me that she can see a VERY big difference in who I am. She said my confidence has improved, my ability to set boundaries is now in place and me knowing that we all our own person. Hearing these words made me smile.”

Sharon T.

“Best investment I ever made.”

Cindy M.

“I just want to say I am so glad I decided to get help from Stephanie McPhail and David Charon. This is an awesome program, don’t sit on the fence, you are worth it!”

Michelle B.

“Thank you, Stephanie and David both for all of your help, guidance and support. I would not be this far along without you!”


Altogether, We've Helped Over 130 Professional Women From All Different Backgrounds Live Better Lives With Better Relationships...


 

Here's just a few of the professional women we've helped...
  • Registered Nurse
  • Student Counselor
  • Real Estate Office Manager
  • Entrepreneur
  • Sales/Operations Manager
  • Patient Service Coordinator
  • Sales and Marketing Manager
  • Insurance Agent
  • Special Education Teacher
  • Retail Assistant
  • Stay-at-home Mom
  • Vice Principal
  • Doctor
  • Job Coach
  • Realtor
  • Occupational Therapist
  • Psychotherapist
  • Speech language pathologist
  • Spanish Teacher
  • Project Manager
  • Bank Executive
  • Early Childhood Teacher
  • Animal Control Officer
  • Home Health Nurse
  • Social Worker
  • Writer

See Dramatic Improvements In Your Life & Relationships In The Next 10 Weeks... Guaranteed!

Our Method Has Already Helped Countless Women Around The World...

The Question Is, Are YOU Next?

Discover Your "Brilliant Life Blueprint"

What Do Our Clients Have To Say?

"I was at the point where I knew I needed more help. I was done and tired of toxicity. I was weary of the same drama and struggling to make sense of relationships!
I was reading personal development books, all types of relationship self-help books, trying mindfulness techniques to heal from past relationship trauma etc... You name it, I probably tried it as a way to overcome and find healing and understanding.
So desperate I was that I began looking on FB for some kind of toxic relationship/trauma support group. This is when I came across Stephanie & David's site, Being Loved Shouldn't Hurt.
It described me perfectly... A professional woman who has her s*hit together at work, but a complete mess in relationships.
As you can imagine, I had spent a good fortune on my attempts with other self development and healing programs, so when I saw the cost of this particular program, well... it was not as costly as others. So I jumped in and signed up. Something about this program seemed different to me and I was desperate and ready for something to work!!
Sure enough, everything about this program works and flows to recovery, understanding, and healing!
The weekly meetings, curriculum, and PSYCH-K sessions. It is a complete and thorough program for women or men that are done with toxic relationships and know that there must be a better way!
As a single mom, I know the major barrier to joining a program like this and that is FINANCES!! I get it, trust me. But here's the deal: life will not improve for us if we continue the same rut as usual. NOTHING WILL CHANGE, until we make a change and this change is to begin INVESTING in ourselves. We must invest in ourselves to become better women, which then makes us better mothers and providers for our children! Our kids deserve a better version of ourselves and they will not receive that if we refuse to invest in our personal growth, journey and healing!
Also, another barrier as a Christian woman is hearing others tell us "just pray, just pray for healing and wisdom. That is all you need is Jesus..!"
Trust me, I love my Jesus and I pray every single day, however, we NEED the help of others that are qualified and more prepared in certain areas to teach and instruct us on how to handle and deal with situations. We are human living this human experience, and it's necessary to lean on one another and learn from those that can help us grow!!
I am a much better me after taking this course. And I absolutely recommend it to anyone that is tired of toxicity and pain from relationships and ready to make a change!!" ~Alondra Magallanes Cooley

Name: Rachel Mineshima

 

Name: Claudine Bachelor

 

Name: Debb Lins

"I wanted to give a shout out to Stephanie McPhail & David Charon and the amazing work they do in the inner circle. I signed up on Friday, August 6th and then left on a 3 day camping trip with my dog with tornado warnings and thunderstorms. I had limited internet, but enough to get the idea of what the Daily Accountability Check In was all about and how the group was structured. Since that phone call with Stephanie, I have: stopped thinking about and longing for the ex, I have met 5 new female friends and have gone kayaking, out for coffee, and am planning puppy socialization meetings in local parks. I have also reconnected with a male friend and am embarking on my first ever real friendship with a man!  I am sleeping at night, getting up and loving life, I have goals, direction, have let go of some faulty limiting beliefs instilled in my a life time ago. I continue to have work to do, but I am well on my way in less than 2 weeks! Don't even get me started on the PSYCH-K session with David--life changing! If you are stuck in repeat and attracting the same toxic unavailable partners...do your self a favor and invest in your own healing instead of giving your heart to 10 more losers who are not doing their work. You deserve better. You matter! Congratulations for getting this far. I encourage you to take it to the next level and get yourself straight before looking for love. I believe it will make all the difference."

Name: Mariza Velez

"Hey peeps in case you didn’t know, Stephanie McPhail & David Charon are amazing mentors!

They provide you with the roadmap to develop the ability to gain self confidence so you can rebuild & recreate your framework so you can OWN your own life.

I’ve been codependent since 13.

It’s the FIRST time in my life I’m single and feel fully capable of coping with my own emotions and life issues on my own instead of running to a significant other or emotional attachment for comfort & security.

I was skeptical about connecting because the belief “can things really get better for me?” always swirled in my head.

Hands Down Best Decision I’ve Ever Made.

These are amazing coaches.

You wan’t be disappointed!

They changed my life forever.

Take your life back! Reclaim Your Power!"

Name: Antonia Martinez

"When I started with Stephanie I describe myself as drowning just hanging above water. I was in this fog and didn't know if I was coming or going. I had to set boundaries for myself so I could function. Stephanie has guided to set little goals for myself everyday to make myself feel good. I can tell you I have gotten alot of self-esteem back and feel good. I have lost 55 lbs and starting to gain my confidence. Stephanie has pushed me to self love and go after what i want to  make myself happy. I currently enrolled to go back and finish getting my Administration License in July. I would recommend anyone who feels lost and broken to work with her and David. They pushed me to be accountable for me. Filling out the accountability sheets daily made me realize little details through my day what is actually going on within myself."

Name: Jeanne Abshire

"When I first discovered Stephanie McPhail and David Charon/inner circle I was recently divorced and felt stuck in my life. I got a divorce after 36 years of being in an abusive relationship and I had no idea how to move forward at that point. When I was introduced to this program instantly I knew it was something I had to try. So I enlisted in the program. My biggest result I have taken away from this program was I am definitely unstuck in my thinking and actions of how I live my life now.   I am so much more positive in my thinking and I am healthier physically mentally and emotionally. I am most excited about healing relationships like with my son and finding new healthy relationships in the future. I love everything about this program but the one thing I love the most is the psych-k part really addressed my deepest core emotions and I was able to release them and continue my life with a new perspective for the future!  I highly recommend this program to everyone in this group."

Romina C.

“I am finally free of my negative thoughts and feelings about myself and the end of 7 yrs of a relationship. I feel like 190lbs have been lifted off my shoulders. Life feels good and I'm starting my new independence! I have a lot of work to do but I want to shout… I’m free at last...free from negative feelings, free from undermining my own forward progress, free to find a new love of my life. I love myself as I am and who I will become. I will be turning 50 in September and I am now excited.”

Adele D.

“I have a calm and peacefulness I never experienced before. I really saw a turnaround, I wasn’t raging anymore… I have such a better work/life balance. If you’re in a place in your life where you’re really not sure where to turn next, I have no doubt that Stephanie and David can help you get there.”

Tammy A.

“This program has done tremendous things for me, and David’s PSYCH-K was so helpful - I did wonders for my inner self and my beliefs and the way I looked at stuff… Stephanie and David’s program came into my life at the perfect time, and I can’t appreciate it more. I am so much happier, and I don’t know how to thank them enough.”

Lynn K.

“Joining the inner circle has been one of the most rewarding learning experiences I’ve ever had. [It] provides a very safe place to be extremely vulnerable. The PSYCH-K sessions did more for my healing than all my years of counseling put together… a huge weight lifted off my shoulders. If you are tired of being chained down by your thoughts and emotions, this is the program that will help you set yourself free.”

Elsa B.

“Thank God for this group, especially the Inner Circle which I call my Tribe… it was SO WORTH IT and possibly the BEST THING I’ve ever done to help my healing.”

Cindi R.

“I had an appt with my counselor today. She told me that she can see a VERY big difference in who I am. She said my confidence has improved, my ability to set boundaries is now in place and me knowing that we all our own person. Hearing these words made me smile.”

Sharon T.

“Best investment I ever made.”

Cindy M.

“I just want to say I am so glad I decided to get help from Stephanie McPhail and David Charon. This is an awesome program, don’t sit on the fence, you are worth it!”

Michelle B.

“Thank you, Stephanie and David both for all of your help, guidance and support. I would not be this far along without you!”


Altogether, We've Helped 130 Women From All Different Backgrounds Live Better Lives With Better Relationships...


 

Here's just a few of the successful women we've helped...
  • Registered Nurse
  • Student Counselor
  • Real Estate Office Manager
  • Entrepreneur
  • Sales/Operations Manager
  • Patient Service Coordinator
  • Sales and Marketing Manager
  • Insurance Agent
  • Special Education Teacher
  • Retail Assistant
  • Stay-at-home Mom
  • Vice Principal
  • Doctor
  • Job Coach
  • Realtor
  • Occupational Therapist
  • Psychotherapist
  • Speech language pathologist
  • Spanish Teacher
  • Project Manager
  • Bank Executive
  • Early Childhood Teacher
  • Animal Control Officer
  • Home Health Nurse
  • Social Worker
  • Writer

See Dramatic Improvements In Your Life & Relationships In The Next 10 Weeks... Guaranteed!

Our Method Has Already Helped Countless Women Around The World...

The Question Is, Are YOU Next?

Discover Your "Brilliant Life Blueprint"

No matter what you’ve been through in the past, or what stage in your personal growth you’re at now, you can quickly create and attract an abundance of love in your life.

With the right guidance, support and tools, you can heal from trauma, end chronic stress and anxiety, transform limiting subconscious beliefs, eliminate codependent behaviors, and master healthy relationships so you never again settle for less than you deserve.

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